My husband and I have been married for 7 years and we are having some serious problems. His family is constantly wanting him to do things for him and he will get up and do it immediately. If I ask anything of him there's alot of questioning and alot of why do I need him to do it. Right now I feel secondary to his family. Everytime time the topic comes up he acts like it's imaginary. Im frustrated feeling unheard, What should I do?