Here we go again...smh
This is my fourth time around the block, and amazingly, I am surprised by how rude people are EVERY TIME. I am 9w4d pregnant. To look at me, you would not suspect anything, unless you know I'm pregnant and DONT know me well... The folks who know me well, know that I have a mommy pooch, Ya know, from the other 3 kids I've had. Oh, but those who don't, and have found themselves privy to this precious info, find themselves looking at my belly and deciding that they are seeing a baby. Yeah, no. You are seeing fat, maybe a full bladder, or gas. But THANK YOU SO MUCH for pointing that out. 
What adds insult to injury is the fact that the people making these asinine comments are people I haven't even told! Which means, someone who I told in confidence has betrayed my trust and determined themselves as worthy distributors of my personal and highly sensitive news. I'm very early in my pregnancy, God forbid anything happen and I now have to deal with a bunch of ppl I never wanted to tell in the first place. Never mind the random "boy, do u have a long way to go" greetings from ppl who suddenly feel closer to me because some jackass can't keep his or her mouth shut.
I'm used to brushing it off and trying to be nice about it. Not this go round, people may hate me for the next 30 weeks, I am not holding back. Comments on how big I am, how tired I look, how hormonal I seem, etc will be returned. And if you reach for my belly, I will either slap you or grab your boob. Just. Don't.
My enormous baby bump??
End rant. Anyone else dealing with ridiculousness already?
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