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I will not be a 30 yr old virgin!

I must belong to a teeny tiny minority of women these days who's virginity lasted this long. Just last month, at the age of 29, I finally had sex.

I blame a combo of a sheltered, religious upbringing and my shy personality, but I had never even had a bf. I don't even know if I get to call this guy a bf because I have no frame of reference!!

I live 100kms from the nearest town (basically outback Australia) so it's a long-distance 'relationship', but he's coming to stay for a few days soon. I'm really keen to know what he thinks 'we' are but I'm afraid to ask incase it makes things awkward.

I feel so stupid, I don't even really know what I'm asking here, but I guess if anyone can offer some tips on what the hell I'm doing, I'd appreciate it...

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