Sex toys kill relationships?

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Okay so me and my boyfriend had this discussion about being in a relationship and having sex toys. Well we are both on the same page about it and we think couples should not have them just to sexually please themselves and not eachother. We both feel that if we sexually please eachother (masturbate) it kills thats excitement to have sex with eachother. How do you ladies feel? Would you let your SO have a sex toy and you as well to masterbate with?

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Yeah I disagree. I wouldn't care if my husband used a toy because it's not the same thing as us having sex. And if I used a toy on myself he would get insanely turned on thinking about it too lol

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I misunderstood the question & hit no but yes I would. The excitement stays the same.

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My boyfriend went out and actually bought my toys for me. It wakens up the sexual side of me and has no effect on our sex life. It makes me embrace the sexual side of myself and makes me a lot more comfortable and confident during sex. Everybody is different for sure but for my bf and I, we both love my toys and he can please me with them as well ☺️

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I don't see how that even makes sense. Toys aren't gonna make you not be as excited about your partner. Physical touch and infancy is waaaaay different than a toy.

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Me and my SO have sex toys but tbh I only use them with him. He wouldn't mind if I used it without him Infact he would love it he'd think it's hot but it's not really for me unless he's involved

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Yeah, I really don't care about him having sex toys. There's nothing it can do that I can't do better. :)

As for myself, I'm the higher sex drive partner. I respect his lack of sex drive, and don't want to push, so I take care of myself. Toys help facilitate that. This way, everyone is happier.

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I want a vibrator. Hell I masturbate around my boyfriend and sometimes he's just helps me get off. But I want a vibrator and he is okay with it. A toy and being with a real person are completely different. Masterbating in General is different than sex.

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Yeah. I don't see any problem with it, but other couples might not like it. I have a couple, but I never use them. I guess I just don't see the point, when I have a boyfriend with a crazy active sex drive. If I want sex I just make sure he knows.

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My boyfriend refuses to let sex toys in the bed. He thinks a toy is better than him. Which upsets him.

Sex toys kill relationships?

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