When to tell?

Question

We have had a lot of losses in the past year. Twins, ectopic and chemical. Each time we told family we were expecting. This time I'm trying to keep a secret as long as I can. Even from our parents.  Anyone else feel the same way??

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We are doing the same thing. This is our first but my younger sister had a mc just after Easter which is also when I got my BFP. I've been talking to my mom throughout our shorter fertility process but this I have kept a secret and it's getting harder. I'll see her in 1 weeks for Mother's Day and I'll be 9 weeks then but we are still waiting until we get the ok from our primary doctor to share the news. My sister shared at 8 weeks but she was only measuring 5.5 and I am trying make sure everything is good before I make a peep. Also trying to let things die down from my sister's mc.

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Im in the same boat but I'm a sharer so Ive told many people about my miscarriages. I have not told everyone this time but I really appreciated the support even though it was hard to tell some people so I have told people I know I can count on if I mc again. It's good to have a support group for something that is so common yet so taboo.

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I just found out and I haven't told my hubbs yet... I don't want to see that look on his face again if I miscarry. I'm going to wait until I pass the point where I missed last time before I tell him

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