Okay confused?

When i had my kid (7yrs ago) i would go to my dr and i remember him checkin me to see how dialated i was, i dnt remember how far along i was, but yea he checked me n I remember cuz i hated the feeling of that... Now that im prego w my second im due on may 15 n they still havent checked me to see how dialated i am, when do they start? I have an appt on friday, do yall think they will check then or till the next followin week?