Ex's n oh's

Paris
I once went out with a guy called Ben, I went out with him for 2 years. Throughout those 2 years, he took $700 dollars off me, mentally abused me and cheated on me more then 9 times. It has now been a year and a half since I ended it with him. 
I love him so very much and showed all the love I could for him and did everything he asked of me. 
I have now moved on, become happy and myself.
I found a guy I am very attracted too, I have very deep feelings for him but the only problem is that he is bens cousin. His name is Jake. 
Jake and I have now become in a thing, an exclusive thing. Jake has told me has feelings for me and we see each other very often.
Am I a bad person if I go out with Jake? 
Ben doesn't know yet that Jake and I are in a thing. I need advice. Am I stupid to be doing this?

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