Doctor issues

Danielle • Happily married and expecting a little boy to be born via c section on March 9th!
So tonight I was having weird cramps that I worried were contractions. I'm only 20ish weeks and very nervous about going into preterm labor because my mother did with me and my husband is out of town so I'm all alone. I called the doctor after hours to express my concerns and I feel as though he totally blew me off! He said I was probably just feeling ligament pain and basically hung up. I am fed up with this practice- I feel the doctor doesn't take my concerns seriously (I am a FTM) and the nurses are rude! Sorry, rant over, I just don't know what to do... Any suggestions?