Sex...

Lauryn
So it's been 12 weeks exactly since my baby has been born. I didn't have sex with my husband for a looooong time because I was scared it would hurt.. And by long time I mean last night was the first time since baby has been born. 
Sadly, it did hurt... Quite a bit that we had to stop. We used lube and everything so im wondering is this normal for it to still hurt this long after?? It felt like something was tearing and was not pleasant at all. The same feeling I had at my 6 week Check up that made me fear having sex. Is this normal?? I don't remember having this issue after my first child was born.