Why are (some) men such wusses? I care for our son on my own all day M-F, he helps a bit on the weekends (mostly holding him, sometimes). My LO takes reflux meds at 6am and 6pm. I always do the meds and the subsequent distracting baby for 30 minutes before he can eat. In the morning I try and let my husband sleep by keeping the white noise on and closing the door and giving baby's meds in the living room. I'm up every 2-3 hours with the baby and he doesn't help with diaper changes at night because "it's a brutal way to wake up." 🙄 Then this morning I was trying to let him sleep as well as get myself and my son ready so I can go to my horse riding lesson. It's 8am, I've been up essentially since 4:30, and my husband is starting to wake. I said "I was going to put him in his chair but do you want to snuggle since you're awake?" And he says, "I have no choice, too much noise and light." 😡 I've been in the living room the whole time trying to stay quiet!