Maybe i just need to rant this out!

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 years, engaged for 5. Anyway we still don't live together even though we have 3 children, I want him to move in so bad but he says he doesnt feel ready. I kinda get what he's saying but 6 years 3 kids and engaged when will he be ready 😩😩. About 2 weeks ago I took my ring off cause I feel that it doesn't mean anything if we dont want the same things etc & he hasn't even noticed I'm not wearing it 😞😞. I just want us to be a 'proper family' so bad 💔💔