What to do when you feel your not good enough

Question

Unfortunately I've been crying a lot lately because I want to find someone who will love me for me but unfortunately I'm fat and everytime I like someone I'm scared to tell them how I really feel I do think want to get rejected

What should I do ?

Answer

Okay listen, no more of this 'unfortunately I'm fat.' - you need to get rid of that phrase from your mind.

You have one body, just one, and that body will go through your whole life with you. You will put your body through so much over a life time; pregnancy, sex, heat, water, wind. It is the one thing that you will always have.

You NEED to learn to love every single part of it. It is YOUR home, and it will never be the home of any man who chooses to love you. You need to sit down with the mirror and accept every single stretch mark, every roll of fat, every blemish and mole and freckle. It is who you are and there is only one of it in the whole world and it is beautiful.

If a man tries to reshape you to fit him he is not meant for you. There are many others that you will meet over a lifetime. that does not mean you are any less worth loving. You deserve to be loved for the way you are and you deserve to love yourself.

Please, take the time to love every part of your physical and mental being before you let others in to do the same. It will take time and practice but it is more rewarding than any relationship in the world. x

Answer

You never know where love will turn up. But all I know is the first thing you need to do is learn to love yourself, wobbly knobbly bits too!! 
It is hard to do, but remember you are awesome and fab and no matter what size you are, you are beautiful. 
Write it down everywhere, say it to yourself in the mirror each morning, make yourself believe in yourself! 😍 😃 
Be strong and happy and love will find you.

What to do when you feel your not good enough

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