Spend thanksgiving at bfs family house or go to the 49er-Seahawks game with the roomie?

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My bfs family is kinda back handed compliment kind of people...his mom still calls me his friend and always finds a way to upset me on the down low. My roommate has tickets to the 49er-Seahawks game and invited me, I'm a huge 49er fan and have no family in the state...what to do!?

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Go to the game. I wouldn't spend my thanksgiving around negative ppl. Life is too short

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Game.

If you stay with this guy, there will be other holidays and other Thanksgivings. He'll understand.

You're being offered tickets to a game with a team you love. I can't tell you how many things I blew off to go to concerts or Bruins games instead. I regret none of it. Life's too short, do things you will be able to smile about later.

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Go to the game for sure.

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Meh, go to the game. It's Thanksgiving not Christmas.

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I'm torn, but I feel like not spending thanksgiving with your bf and his family gives them more of a reason to bad mouth you

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Sounds like you have already made up your mind... But do what u want, your not married to him yet

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What does your bf think? Is it important to him to spend the day with you? Or does he understand how his family is and know it would be more fun for both of you if you went to the game?

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Go to the game!! It's free and u won't have to deal with the monster in law I don't spend any holidays with the in laws anymore they do t like me and I am ok with that. Well kind of it does hurt my feelings but it hurts more when I go there and get treated like poop

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Go seahawks! Haha but really, I'm a fan of the hawks so I know that game is a pretty big deal for Hawks fans and 9ers fans. I'm sure your BF would understand. That game is something a lot of fans would like to go to, so I'd say go to the game. Sounds like you'd have more fun and be more comfortable anyways. Instead of feeling awkward at thanksgiving.

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If you care about the relationship... Spend it with your boyfriend 
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​But if the game appeals to you more & would give you more happiness obvs spend it with your friend!

Spend thanksgiving at bfs family house or go to the 49er-Seahawks game with the roomie?

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