First time??

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I have a very high pain tolerance but couple weeks ago I thought I was ready…when my bf tried it hurt so bad, it made me cry and he probably only made it in 1 1/2". I know the first time would hurt but should it have hurt that much? And does it even really count as losing my virginity?

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Were you lubricated? Bc a big mistake a lot of ppl make is trying to penetrate without being wet enough and having enough foreplay, also if you can do your best to relax, if you are tense it will hurt more

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If he went in at all, you have officially lost your V card. Congrats. My first time hurt like a bitch but I didn't get my cherry popped until years later. Things happen to everyone differently.

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In my opinion penetration is penetration. Welcome to the Not a Virgin Club

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Not everyone has a "cherry to pop". Just an FYI.

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Yep. First time hurts!!!

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You can still lose your virginity without your hymen breaking. Mine actually didn't break for a very long time. My gyno was very impressed haha. Female Virginity is lost with vaginal penetration with a penis. Weather it was 1 1/2 inches or 8.....you lost it once it went in.

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No it doesn't count he didnt go far enough in you to pop ur cherry so u are good and everyone experiences different pain my first time it hurt alot too then we got lube and tryed it again and things worked smoothly other than we were both virgins

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