Why cant we all be kind and generous to people?!

It's really not hard to be nice but talking about someone to other people about whether they have a car money a baby or health issues whatever it may be please don't talk or judge them you don't know their story of what they're going through or have through to get that... Words hurt especially from family I try my best to ignore the hateful comments family makes to me like I just brought my very first car on my own & my SO has his car now we don't need to use my aunt's car but anyways I went through alot to get that car my blood sweat and tears and I haven't told anyone but my mom & already half the family knows it makes me sad cause that's my accomplishment to share & tell people (my family) when I'm ready to. YES! it's just a car but I have bigger accomplishments coming soon. please don't take that from me or anyone else be kind to others! & most of respect their privacy especially if they told u not to tell anyone! Thank u all 🎀