I am having my first baby and I'm excited and everything also happy that my family is excited too but lately my mom and my aunt in particular have been driving me nuts. My mom keeps going on about how I should breast feed when I already told her I hadn't made up my mind yet it's not like I totally said I wouldn't but every time I talk to her she keeps mentioning it and it is starting to annoy like leave my boobs out of this. She also keeps asking for belly pics and while I have been taking belly pics for a memory book I am putting together I don't want to give any of my family members or friends belly pics for I feel that is private. I finally told her I wasn't gonna send any belly pics after she kept bugging for a few days and now she hasn't said anything back so now I'm the bad person for saying no. And my aunt when I talk to her just keeps going on and on about the baby shower and bugging me to give her dates when is it gonna happen and when will I be coming back to town (cuz I live in another state form my family)  and it's like I don't know I still have to work and stuff so don't know the future of my schedule I care about making money to provide for my baby and expenses not the baby shower. She also is so freaking insistent that I name my baby Anne if it's a girl (no offense to people who name their baby Anne it's a lovely name but not what I want for my baby) she is literally convinced that's gonna be the name she sent a card out addressing the baby as that I literally ripped it up in hormonal frustration. And every time I call her she just talks about the baby and goes on and on doesn't even ask me how I am doing. She also keeps trying to convince me to move back home how it will be so much better she doesn't respect the fact that to move away to another state was a decision of mine that is making me very happy and provided me with opportunities that my home state couldn't.  She also keeps stressing me about going on and on about how there will have to probably be two baby showers cuz my boyfriends family is throwing one for me in Mexico and half my family don't have passports and don't want to go Mexico and it's like honestly I don't care how many baby showers there will have to be my family never wants to go anywhere for anybody unless everything is done to their liking so I don't care or hear any of it. I also was told at 16 week ultrasound  by the doctor that it might be a girl but will not know for sure until 20 weeks so I just told my family that it might be a girl but not to go crazy buying girl things just yet until I know for sure and every single week my aunt calls literally bugging me so do you know if it is a girl yet and will ask several times during the same conversation like the news is gonna change in any way. I keep saying the same thing not until I'm 20 weeks will I know I'm not there yet. Well turns out my mom told me she went out and bought a bunch of girl stuff even though I told her wasn't sure yet if it was a girl and now I'm like well we better hope it's a girl now for sure or she gonna have a lot of returning to do. She also called me leaving an urgent voicemail that she needed me to call her quick so I did thinking something had happened to her maybe an emergency. No it turns out she was freaking out because she heard that my boyfriends cousin had given us a crib already and she wanted to make sure that no one got the stroller cause she was gonna get the stroller and to make sure that I tell everyone not to get a stroller and if I knew exactly what every family member was gonna get me it's like no I don't go around asking and keep a list of who is getting what it's a baby shower which is suppose to be a surprise. It's not that I am not grateful for everything she is trying to do for the baby I understand my family is just overexcited for the baby I get it but my aunt is getting me to the point where it is stressing me out. I wonder if it's just the hormones that are making me feel this way but I feel like her stressing me out has made this experience no longer a happy one but a stressful one that I just want to be over so they can leave me alone for bit. I ain't even looking forward to going back home anymore so they can stress me out in person. I love my family to death don't get me wrong but sometimes they make me glad that I moved to another state cuz if I were still home they probably wouldn't leave me alone. I know I sound very moody and ungrateful and bitchy it's probably the hormones but I just needed to vent.