We don't do ne thing together

Me and my SO have been together for almost 10 years, we fight more now then ever too. I usually work late afternoon till night time so I'm not home when he is and he has to cook most the time but when I'm off I have dinner ready and all that for him like he does me. Here lately when I'm off work tho he comes home sleeps if dinner isn't done yet and eats and then sleeps more. I understand he's tried and works hard to take care of us but I would like some time with him too. He doesn't see my point and I'm sick and tried of trying. I don't want much just play a card game with me or have a real conversation with we I clean all day and spend the whole day by myself lonely just a little talk and love would be nice. Just had to vent. One lonely women here thanks