Phone sex??!!🙂

Question

Do you and your SO have phone sex not like sexting through text and stuff but like phone convo/FaceTime/video chat phone sex? If so how often? How long have you been doing it? how do you feel about it? And what was your opinion about it before you did it for the first time vs. how you view it now? 🙂🙂

Answer

My boyfriend of a year and half lives 2 hours away. Sexting, Skype date, snap chat, and sexy pics are definitely out MO. I never really did it before him, but it was always so natural that I never thought about it. I definitely was not going to put my stuff up there in front of a web cam at first, but now it's jut deciding which position to put the camera. We can spend all day sexting and have a date later. It definitely keeps the fire alive so far away. Not to mention how fun it is. Reading just how much someone wants you is amazing and a turn on. You don't have to be there to bond and grow closer. But like I said, it's definitely how comfortable you are with you SO and trust is a big part of it too.

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We go through periods where we wont for a while for whatever reason, be it bc we havent had the time, stress, lowered libidos, or because we'd been sexting instead. We also go through periods where it happens at lease once or twice a day. We've been doing it since early august! I think its awesome since we're long distance haha. And i mean??? The first time i really didnt even stop to think "this is phone sex" until we had finished and were like oh thats a thing that just happened sweet highfive. I guess when we first started it felt so new and exciting and dirty, but now its like??? A normal part of my life that i love a lot. Its something ive grown very comfortable with and its made taking care of myself a miLLION times better than before id tried phone sex.