Sick and TIRED

I'm about to get fed up with my OBGYN and GP. Every darn time I go to them about an issue, they solution is ALWAYS "well ya know you're close to menopause". Like dang, perimenopause can't be the answer to EVERY ailment for women in their 40s can it?!?!  Sorry. Had to get it out. I'm just so sick of hearing that....and my OBGYN is a women around my age herself. She should know better.