Does your SO constantly put your in-law family ahead of you and your children? Mine complains about me to his parents and sister (who has been catty and tried to put me down since we met), is always negative about how our life is going but raves about how great his sister's and mom's stuff/situations are, will drive for hours to do something for them but refuses to drive 45 minutes to have dinner with my parents... And he calls me psycho for asking him to keep our relationship stuff private. I ask him to please see our relationship and living situation, etc. in a positive light...I always try to support him but he couldn't care less about my accomplishments. He acts like staying with me does me a favor. He likes to tell me that he doesn't have to be with me, that he can just leave whenever. And when he gets pissed he packs up his things and stays at his sister's. His brother-in-law and his stepdad both have more money than us, and ever since they came around, he only wants to do things if they're doing them first.