Is it really acceptable???

I've been reading so much lately that husbands or bf or whatever you have... Don't help around the house. Really?? Why is this so acceptable?? I work a ft job, so does my husband. We both cook, though he is better. Both clean and share yard work. I don't get why so many women are flying off the handle because 'Noone else will clean the house', lol those are the expectations you set...dont be mad.