I know it's wrong!!!!

So my husband is always so tried and doesn't wasn't want to have sex or any any kind of action. So I was was in the wrong my making out with is friend. At the time it felt good but then I felt wrong. But lately I feel like my so just wants to sleep and doesn't care for anything. I feel bad but at the same time I seem it and  and got that from his friend. We were both missed our other but it felt good at the the same time. Am I in the wrong?
M