Lying to my husband to have 3rd??

Question

So my husband has told my before he doesn't want anymore kids we have two. From the first time being married my husband and I discussed having 5 kids. I was an only child and he had 5 brothers and sisters and we both just wanted a big family. Of course as time went on that number got less and less. I still really wanted three and so did he at first.. After our second he decided he didn't want anymore. But he knows I still want one more to complete our family. I can not take birth control because of health issues and he knows this. And yet he still cums in me all the time. I do have PCOS so conceiving would be hard. But I was wondering if it would be wrong of me to take clomid without him knowing? I'm I horrible for even considering it...? :/

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I would say to try to talk to him about it again first and see because I don't think it would be a great decision to lie about it you never know what type of outcome would happen if you lied. I'm sure if it JUST HAPPENED you two would be surprised and happy together as it grows but lying and getting pregnant he might be disappointed while your happy and that wouldn't mix. Good luck in whatever YOU decided.

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...you do know you can get into serious trouble for stuff like this? Tricking your parented into having another child? Also that's childish. Sorry if I sound rude but if he doesn't want another child then he doesn't want another I'm sure he has his reasons and you being his wife you should respect that, sitting and talking with him would be better find out why he doesn't want another don't go behind his back like a child and bring another kid into this world just because you want the child....extremely childish and selfish....he may not be able to handle it, think about him as well not just your wants

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I wouldn't force or lie to him to have another child. This is something you both need to agree on. And you never know. He may change his mind on his own. I am infertile and have 2 amazing kids. Maybe one day I can adopt

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Don't lie to him try talking again and see where it goes

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I understand but if you do this and he finds out, it'll only cause more trouble in the end. Plus blood work and possible other appts every month due to taking clomid... he'll figure it out

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I would not lie to him at all. Talk to him.

Lying to my husband to have 3rd??

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