Am I sensitive or do I have the right to be upset?

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Things he does/ has done to upset me:

1. Called me and my family "white-washed".
2.Called me to argue about baby names after I told him we can discuss that after my first trimester.
3. Told me if we have a boy I'm going to raise my son to be a punk.
4. Said all the baby names I like are "stupid white people names"
5. Told me to get a C-Section so my vagina doesn't rip open.
6. Told me I was being dramatic about my symptoms.
7. Called me at 2 in the morning asking if I can come over for sex.

I literally get frustrated to the point of tears when I talk to him. I really want him to be a part of my baby's life but right now I want to cut him off.

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He's a dick. Straight up. That's some bullshit.

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Oh No girl that is beyond frustrating. But you can't argue with stupid so I would try not to let the shananigans that come out of his mouth work you up. You already know what to expect from him so let it roll off your shoulders. Good luck mama

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You deserve so much better than someone who wants to break you down at every chance he gets. Start thinking bigger & better in ALL aspects of your life & soon you'll see that he isn't worth sticking around for. Not just for you, but for your baby! Will say a prayer for you.

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I would stop answer his calls and his txts. You don't need someone like that, ever! He's acting childish! I would tell him he gets no say in anything if he can't act like an adult.

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He sounds immature and plainly horrible, but  I agree on naming mixed babies whitish names disconnects them from thisr cultrye, but you gave the right to name your baby whatever you want--it's YOUR baby. Honestly, just take a break from him. You don't need that extra stress during the most fragile part of your pregnancy. You should be enjoying yourself, not worrying about him. But you should consider, at least if it's a boy, letting him give his son a more cultural or ethnic name--it may be ignorant of him to call you white-washed, but you have to understand the perspective at which he's coming from. You may not see things the way he sees them. You're going to have to learn how to see eye-to-eye on a lot of things, which means you'll have to settle the little things (names, cultural practices..etc) long before baby is born. Maybe take a break to cool yourself, then talk it all out.

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Yeeaaahhh, he sounds kinda awful

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There is really not much for you guys to talk about right now. I think that you should stop talking to him for a while until you get closer to your due date. You don't need the added stress on you. When the baby is born, you two can discuss custody or visitation arrangements. Please relax lady and take care of yourself. Congratulations and I wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy.

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Soo why are you with him again? 🤔

Am I sensitive or do I have the right to be upset?

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