My best friend for over 10 yrs has let her whole life go. Before meeting her bf she was in school and working very independent. She met him had a child and it went down hill. Both can't keep a job, despite this had two more children. In the last two years her bf hasn't worked and started using drugs. She also stopped caring and her house is filthy. Like food all over the floors dishes everywhere. Her kids are filthy not looked after properly and sit in front of a TV all day eating junk food, in soaked diapers (age 5 and 3) I can tell she is depressed and in serious denial. No matter how many times I offer to help or try she refuses and stays with her drug addict bf living off her family and the state.