over reacting?

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sooo my boyfriend and I went to meijer last night & he checked out a girl right in front of me (wearing yoga pants) & I got mad and didn't talk to him for hours. am I over reacting?

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Im usually the one to look and then I'm like babe look at her ass! Or damn she is pretty! Lol I don't care. U can look but u can't touch

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I caught my husband one day at Walmart breaking his neck to checkout a girl. I was walking in front of him so he didn't know I saw. He started laughing when he realizing he was busted. I got jealous but later realized he is just a man. And they look. But he is true to me. That's what matters most. Truth is I enjoy a quick look at a great looking guy but that doesn't mean I'm going anywhere.

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Being mad? No.

Not talking for hours? Yes.

You threw a temper tantrum. If you're a grown adult you need to learn to talk to him when you're unhappy, not react like a child.

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Lol mine looks all the time. As long as he looks and doesn't touch, i am fine with that. :)

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He's a man! He's going to look. Hell, I'm usually the one like "she's gorgeous!" Or "she's thick! I need booty like that." My bf laughs and we will joke about it but I feel it's harmless.

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Although if it were something to oogle over my hubby would have told me to look as well lol. But if I ever caught him looking(lingering). I would tell him you better control your eyes before I do. Lol

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They can look but they can't touch. I'm not bothered by my boyfriend checking girls out. It's hilarious when ya catch them though. His face gets all red lol

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A quick look usually doesn't bothers me but ogling and saying stuff does.

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Hey Ashley! Did you explain to him why you were mad and how it made you feel when he checked out another girl? Was he understanding?

It's unrealistic to think your SO won't ever notice other people, but it is completely valid for you to ask him to understand why it upsets you and do what he can to make you feel comfortable. Hope this helps!

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