So about two years ago a girlfriend and I kinda fell out. I left home about five years ago. And met a guy had a baby , you know how it goes I moved away from home and got the adventure I wanted out of life.

The plan was going to always be she would come to wherever I settled. And we would do what bffs do. Well she and her boyfriend got pregnant life happend. We kept in contact threw my travels. She worried when she didnt hear from me so on an such. But when I finally settled and met my husband and everything started to fall into place. She would make statements like if she didnt hear from me she thought he had done something bad to me. At first it didnt bother me. But after I had my first daughter and we would go normal times without speaking due to me being a new mom an such.she still would make the statement. My husband an I never even argued so I have no idea why she would go that far.

Well around the time I got pregnant with my second child I had pretty much begun to ignore her text and phone calls. I started to feel like I was growning up and understanding we were not as close as we use to be. So I had no time to talk on the phone for 6+hrs daily. So she told me to pretty much fuck off cause I was being a shitty friend. Understandable I didn't care tho. Well I had my second child. And life has been wonderful. I Got married last year . Im expecting my 3rd surprise. Well she contacted me about 8 months ago . I was working full time and was on rotating shifts I told her. I noticed she didnt like that still. But nothing I can do about it. She told me she was expecting her 2nd and all was good at first. Well she miscarried, and I found out I was expecting. Awkward for me. But she said it was fine for me to talk about with her. Well my morning sickness caused me to have to quit my job. So I took my kids out of daycare and im at home now. Full stay at home mom now.

where I live now I dont have many friends so I can be very anti-social im not 18 anymore im not a social butterfly. Plus I have my husband who is my best friend. She a text I reply and its like its not good enough. If im not complaining about my husband it like we not on the same page. We dont agree on upbringing in children. She is very judgmental as im not so much. Like we are not the 18 year old friends anymore. She has no idea im not in that negative space and she is so negative. She only text me to complain or sends me complaining jokes. Or she always talking about leaving her boyfriend an family. Like I just need suggestions how to handle this. I care about her, I just dont no how to tell her she has no idea who I am anymore. help me out lol im stressing out