"Not Trying"

Vic(Tori)a • Just trying to make sense of this mixed up world we live in 🩷
I see all these posts about women "not trying" to get pregnant and it happens within a few months. I've been "not trying" for almost a year and still nothing. Then I see all these other women posting about trying for 3+ years and nothing. It discourages me, makes me think it could take forever, maybe never happen...