"Not Trying"

Vic(Tori)a • Proud mama to the most precious little princess 💖💖 trying for #2
I see all these posts about women "not trying" to get pregnant and it happens within a few months. I've been "not trying" for almost a year and still nothing. Then I see all these other women posting about trying for 3+ years and nothing. It discourages me, makes me think it could take forever, maybe never happen...