After an anatomy scan yesterday at 16 weeks 3days, we learned that baby girl has a whole in her heart, missing tissue in the back of her brain, is having trouble getting food via the umbilical cord, and low amniotic fluid. We were told that if she even makes it to full term, our baby girl will never be "normal" and risks a still birth. Never has my heart felt anything remotely close to this kind of pain. We want to find support groups and couples who have been faced with the decision to discontinue pregnancy or continue with it knowing all the things that could go wrong. This is our first baby, and we have no idea how else we will be able to get though this without support from those who have been in a similar situation. Prayers and good vibes are appreciated.