How do you work your vegan lifestyle with your non-vegan family?

I really want to become vegan and try my best to avoid meat, dairy, etc. but my one problem is, my boyfriend is not a vegan! We live together and he eats meat with every meal and refuses to cook vegan meals whenever it's his turn to cook. Whenever I want to cook, he eats out because he doesn't want a vegan meal. It's very frustrating that he refuses to let me cook my meals or get what I need for them because he doesn't want to pay for our separate foods (he's the bread winner in the family and buys the food). How do you work being a vegan with a family that is the furthest from a vegan you can be? I don't mind that he doesn't eat my meals but I would like to atleast make them for myself 😕.