Can we start a #HeDidntHitMe on here?

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I've been seeing a lot of young girls who are obviously in emotionally abusive relationships and I think we should raise awareness and tell out stories in this safe space. Please no victim blaming.

#HeDidntHitMe but he acted fine around my family so when I said he was abusive, no one believed me.

#HeDidntHitMe but he would carve NO into his chest when I denied him sexual advances. I didn't fight when he raped me for this reason

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#HeDIDHitMe and everything else that's been mentioned on here so far, and much much more. Just bc a man doesn't hit you, doesn't mean he isn't abusive. Good for starting this, as so many women need to realize abuse comes in many different forms! 👏👏

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#HeDidntHitMe but I was dressed like a "whore" when I wore leggings in public.

#HeDidntHitMe yet during my grandmother's funeral I was an "ungreatful" and " uncaring bitch" for not texting him during it.

#HeDidntHitMe but I constantly told I was better not being around if I wasn't with him.

#ISurvived

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#hedidnthitme but he showed up at my house in the middle of the night because he thought I was cheating.

#hedidnthitme but he told me how to wear my hair and makeup, and would get mad if I did it another way.

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#HeDidntHitMe but he would take away all my clothes and shoes if I didn't want to have sex.

#HeDidntHitMe but he put a tracker on my car and would show up to where I was.
 
#HeDidntHitMe but he would monitor my phone calls and text messages, getting upset if I spoke to anyone except him, including my family.

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Eventually he did hit me (about 10 months into the relationship) but for those first 10 months

#HeDidntHitMe but he told me I had to wear makeup all the time around him

#HeDidntHitMe but he made me shave for him or else he acted like I was disgusting and untouchable

#HeDidntHitMe but he knew I was in the beginning stages of an eating disorder and constantly told me I needed to stay skinny

#HeDidntHitMe but he tried to alienate me from everyone I knew and trusted either by turning them against me or turning me against me

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#HeDidntHitMe but he told me I'd better lose weight because I was starting to get gross and he didn't like it . (I was 125 lbs at the time)

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#HeDidntHitMe But Always Told Me What To Wear, How To Do My Hair And Make Up And If I Didn't Do It That Way Was Ignored For Weeks Upon Weeks.

#HeDidntHitMe But Would Call Me Every Name In The Book If I Talked To Any Male Including A Waiter.

#HeDidntHitMe But He Cut My Hair As A "Punishment" For Not Making Him What He Wanted For Supper.

#HeDidntHitMe But Made Me Hand Over My Pay Checks To Him Because They "Belonged To Him" Because He Was "Supporting Me".

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#Hedidnthitme but didn't allow me to get a job and completely controlled my finances so I couldn't leave.

Thank god I'm away from that now.

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#HeDidn'tHitMe But.. he would constantly accuse me of cheating while I was at school/work(when i was 17) 
#HeDidn'tHitMe But.. When we would hang with his friends he would do stuff to humiliate me and laugh it me. Like pour alcohol in my purse and then on me... 
#Hedidn'tHitMe but He Wouldn't let me see any friends and get mad when family would come over. Or id go see them.

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#HeDidntHitMe but he told me he'd hang himself in the closet if I ever left him.

#HeDidntHitMe but he broke into our house after I locked him out for throwing drinking glasses at me.

#HeDidntHitMe but he wouldn't let me see my best friend anymore because he was afraid I'd meet someone else if I left the house too much.

Can we start a #HeDidntHitMe on here?

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