Painful periods ruining my life !

So I'm 20 and I'm married to and amazing army man well my periods have been horrible since I was 11 but there getting worst before I met him I wasnt on birth control I vomited on my period I couldn't move back pains and all I couldn't eat or drink anything for two days it was so unhealthy nine years later going on ten there getting worst I was on birth control but I got off because it made no difference like it's Bloody Mary down there I go through so many pads my cravings or off the roof I bloat like there's no tomorrow but the issue is we have been trying for a baby for a while I'm still not pregnant !! We're not trying we just think it's odd so I'm pretty freaked out because my mom has ovary problems so I'm slowly dieing inside so I have my doctors appt June first to refer me to and obgyn and I'm so scared of the results i really want a little family one day