So tired of the double standard.

Why is it that when it comes to dating in this day and age. Guys will text you non stop when you first start talking trying to get you to come hang out. Knowing good and damn well you know what they want. You'll tell them you don't want that at the moment. You want to wait until things were right. And you try to maintain a real conversation about real things. But they either stop texting. Or they'll pretend to care then you'll finally decide you can hang out and such. And the second you sleep with them you're no longer good enough for them you're a hoe you're easy. Blah blah. When they literally spend WEEKS begging you to come be with them. Why? Why the fuck are they allowed to sleep with whoever whenever and we wait a bit. And they are still good people. No one thinks differently of them. If anything they are thought of higher. I'm fucking sick of it. Just because we're women. Doesn't mean we aren't allowed to be comfortable having sex. Why is it they can beg and beg. But when they're done with us. We're the hoes. We're the ones in the wrong. Not them. Just. Ugh.