My son did something terrible..
I was at work today when I got a phone call from my kids school in regards to my son. (14 in year 9) I got to school and discovered my daughter there (16 and year 11) crying in the office and I didn't know why.
I was called into a meeting with the principle discussing my son will be expelled. He told me that my son, had a girl give him a blow job in the male toilets at school, videoed it and sent it to his mates..
I don't think I've ever cried so much in my life. I feel like I have failed as a parent because this boy who is so beautiful, innocent and quiet has done this.
I took his phone off him and went through other messages and it turns out he had organised a bong, tobacco, cigarettes and alcohol previously and when he was staying at mates houses he actually snuck out to meet girls ("fuck buddies" as the text referred to.
I don't know what to do with myself. I feel I have failed as a parent. Do any of you have any ideas on how I can cope? I also ask that if you have any forms of punishment that you inform me as I'm so lost right now.
Edit: I'm sorry I posted this in the wrong group. I am not thinking straight.
My daughter was in the office crying as she had heard all the "rumours" and was genuinely upset thinking her brother was bullied. She had just found out it was all true
Another edit: the girl actually had a "roster" of the boys she was going to give blow jobs, however my son was the only one who was caught. Does that change anything for him?.
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