Spooning another person = cheating?

Question

Okay so I am currently in a long distance relationship. I love the guy I'm with a lot, it is however a relatively new relationship. Last night I had some friends over and I ended up getting pretty blackout drunk and spooning this guy and a little hand holding. NO KISSING. NOTHING ELSE. I guess I just really missed physical contact, especially cuddling when my boyfriend is away... I don't want to hurt him, I have no desire to. Should I be honest and tell him about this or am I making a big deal out of nothing and just don't do it again? 
(never cheated on someone, been cheated on by a previous partner and has given me trust issues)

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Cheating. Let me find out my SO was spooning someone else. They both gonna be dead

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Think about it this way, if it was the other way around; would you want him to tell you?

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Just tell them, if nothing else happened they won't mind, I cuddle my male friends and female friends all the time, it's just cuddling. Not like it was leading to anything.

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If it seems to bother you so much then tell him. Be  honest. No one can determine if you cheated except for you and your boyfriend

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Putting yourself in that situation is not cheating but it defiantly could lead to it! 
Not saying at all that you have cheated or anything .. But it's better to keep yourself in check.

Don't put yourself in situations that can lead to that !

Not having physical contact unfortunately is one of the cons to long distance relationships :(

Maybe plan a little holiday to see him and it might make it easier to focus on the fact that you will be seeing him soon ! Xx

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tell him. and you said you were drunk. that's never an excuse but it does give some understanding.... so tell him

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Yes it is cheating. Would you want your SO doing that with someone else?

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I'd tell him. Some people see it as fine. I mean when I was with my ex I would cuddle people all the time and he never cared at all.

But the person I'm with now I only cuddle family or my best friend. It bothers him if I would to cuddle other people.

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Don't tell but don't do it again where there is smoke there is fire

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Tell him, and work it out with him

Spooning another person = cheating?

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