Spooning another person = cheating?

Okay so I am currently in a long distance relationship. I love the guy I'm with a lot, it is however a relatively new relationship. Last night I had some friends over and I ended up getting pretty blackout drunk and spooning this guy and a little hand holding. NO KISSING. NOTHING ELSE. I guess I just really missed physical contact, especially cuddling when my boyfriend is away... I don't want to hurt him, I have no desire to. Should I be honest and tell him about this or am I making a big deal out of nothing and just don't do it again? 
(never cheated on someone, been cheated on by a previous partner and has given me trust issues)