So I have a 3 yr old stepdaughter whom I've been raising since she was 1 yrs old. I don't see her as my stepchild, I see her as my own daughter. I love her to pieces!! Her bio mom abandoned her before she turned 1 and still hasn't been around. Doesn't send money for her, call, text, etc. It's as if she never existed.

I'm currently 29 weeks pregnant with my husband's second child and I must say, he doesn't seem as excited about this pregnancy as he did with my 3 yr old. When her bio mom was pregnant, all he ever did was post her belly pics and sonogram pics on social media and BRAGGED about his princess on the way. It was all he could talk about because he was so excited. But with this pregnancy, he's the complete opposite. He doesn't post anything, doesn't brag to anyone about our baby, doesn't bond with my belly, nothing. It's as if he doesn't really care since he went thru the experience already with his first born.

I feel like he loves our baby but he loves his first born more. And I think it's wrong because BOTH my girls are my reason for existing, regardless if I birthed them both or not. I would never show that I prefer one over the other because to me, they are the same. Am I crazy for thinking this? Am I reading too much into it? Has anyone gone thru anything similar? I'm just a little heartbroken by how's he's acting. Advice??