First time 😳😁☺️

Magen
So I'm 17 and so is my boyfriend we have been togather for exactly 11 months today and we have been  talking about how we want to do "IT" for the first time we are both Virginias but I need advise I'm not in the pill but he's going to use a condom is that safe or should I get on the pill and then we do it I'm so unsure but I need help 😁💕