6 months ago my husband had an 'emotional affair' it ended when she tried to make things physical and a lot more serious. Since we've been working on our marriage and things are starting to look up. The problem is she won't leave him alone! They work for the same company so it's inevitable that their paths will cross but she sends him inappropriate messages (wish we could still do coffee :(...) or will actually follow him! It's stressing us both out, they're on a training course together today and I know she'll bother him then he'll have to be rude to her then he'll text me to tell me about it.

My question is, I've been letting him handle this, it's his mess, is it time for me to tell her to leave him alone