I have a scheduled c section for the 1st June and my in laws are travelling across the country to scatter a relative's ashes the very next day on the 2nd.

My mother in law is already asking how many visitors can I have at one time and to let her know ASAP.

I know this sounds selfish but I was hoping after my operation I would just be able to relax and recover and bond with our baby just my partner and I. I'm going to be so wiped out after a major operation I don't think I'll be ready for visits that same day.

I'm worried she's going to pressure us to come before she goes away :(