Will he become aggressive towards people?

Question

This is a carry on from my last post in a way, but yesterday some things happened, everything got out of hand and my boyfriend punched a wall out of anger. 
He is so controlled normally, he is the sweetest person and wouldn't usually hurt a fly, but this time he just lost it. 
I wasn't there to see it, but he ended up having to go to hospital and may need to have surgery on his knuckles to have them put back into place, 
I have literally just read a post on here about how "if he is violent towards objects, he will be towards you" and it got me thinking. 
He grew up in an abusive household, his father was a violent drunk and would often hurt him to the point he wouldn't be able to go to school for weeks. His mum can be the same, but isn't a drinker. 
The abuse no longer happens, but I know it's ingrained into him, it will stay with him for life. 
I'm not worried about him hurting me, because I know that the instant he did I would be gone, but it just got my brain working. 
What is the possibility he would turn that aggression towards people? 
Bearing in mind he is not a fighter at all, he is always the peace maker in our relationship and is so gentle, but there is always that thought at the back of my mind. 
We have spoken about it before, but I would just like to get the opinion of others, maybe even some experiences?
Thank you.

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It's tough to tell however I can say that the saying "if he hits objects he'll hit you" is such crap. My brothers as well as myself have pretty short tempers and we ALL hit or break things when we're mad. Albeit immature and doesn't solve anything, we can all say that we have NEVER hit our partners and NEVER will.

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My husband put his hand through a few walls when we were younger. He never hit me and has calmed down so much over the years. We both grew up in shitty homes he had it really bad. It's been 6 years and he's just amazing now. He's the kindest man.

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He need to do a therapie! One day he'll get on his breaking point.... and will be violent against people or you probably. Talk to him he should see a counselor.

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I doubt he will ever get violent towards you. I would see if he would want to talk to a therapist just to talk.

My boyfriend has multiple personalities and everyone told me to leave him for it. Even strangers that didn't understand what was going on with him like random burst of anger and shit. I mean he has been horrible to me. But it's a mental illness. Now I'm not saying stay if he hurts you. In saying be understanding and let him know you are there for him. Be his wall to lean on his shoulder to cry on. Be there for him because that's what he needs.

I know from experience life with a mental illness and living with them is hard. He may suffer form a form of ptsd that's one that I can count on that he has and probably anxiety and depression problems. Just have him talk to a therapist and be there to support him all the way.

Will he become aggressive towards people?

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