This Sunday me and my fiancé are supposed to be going to his mams house. Thing is my dog is having a big operation today and wirh the medication she is on its a risky one and I don't want to leave her atm. Thing is. He want to take our son on his own to his mother's without me. I will let him take him anywhere but I don't trust our son there without me because their (inlaws) attitude is what mammy don't see mammy don't have to know. For example the will pump him with sweets and spoil his dinner and he's teething atm so he can be fussy on times as it is also they all vape (big thick clouds too) and I don't want it around him because that's my choice (anyway the amount they vape is like having a smoke machine in the same room)

Anyway he now thinks I don't trust him but on two occasions she's had him for 5-10minutes I gave her his dinner before and she said he didn't want it he wanted treats she didn't even try. What do i do. We are trying for another baby and we don't need the stress of him thinking I don't trust him