My S/O has been out of a job for 4-5 mo. He's been doing his hobby acting in these local plays. That's cool but it's not bring in a lot of money. Every morning I leave him 2-3 pages of jobs that are hiring. He fills "some" out but not enough. I ask have he thought about school he was only a year away from graduating from culinary school. He says its too much money he'll go back when he feels like it. He told me today Iam doing too much when I keep leaving jobs listing on the night stand or the on the computer. I'm trying to be supportive but he keeps pushing me away. So my question is should I keep kicking him in his butt to find a job or let him find it on his own?