I'm sorry yal but my husbands step mom just pulled in the yard & we was talking & I told her I miscarried & she said "well what did u do to to lose it??" I said "I didn't do anything!!!" & she said "Yeah, you had to do something to lose it."........ We've been trying for 6yrs & this was our first pregnancy EVER!! & it was an early loss but it still hurts BAD!!! Stuff like that pisses me off cause they don't even know the half of what some of us have to go through medically, physically & mentally to have children!!! I'm not looking for you to feel sorry for me but don't BLAME me!! Seriously?!?!? Sorry yal I just had to vent & you guys are the only ones who understand. 😡😩😢