Boyfriend issues

Alexandra
My boyfriend just broke up with me because according to him, I don't give him enough head, I don't show him attention or affection. But I'm the kind of person that don't like for someone to be on me all the time. I do show him attention and when I do he always be like now you want a hug and he wouldn't give me a hug or kiss. When he get off work I ask him how's work and he don't answer me. Last night we both was laying down on our phones when he just said I don't think this is working because I don't think you like me, you don't show me attention or affection or wants to have sex. Me personally I don't want to have sex everyday because it takes away how special it is. But how do I explain myself to him without coming off as rude?