Let me first start off by saying: NO I'm NOT telling u how u should or should've raised/raise your babies. NO I'm NOT being judgmental about your decisions or even mine. (Cause we all aren't perfect we all make mistakes) NO I'm NOT criticizing you or even telling u how to (because everyone is different & has there own way) so anyways My SO and I decided that when we do get our BFP we are ttc! That we WILL NOT raise our voices to our children Hit/push them or talk down to them like there feelings don't matter. We will take a more gentle way and calmly listen to their concerns,guide them when they're lost or need any or kinds of help protect them from harms way and most importantly love them and show them love comes in many forms! And to never judge a person on what they look like how they act or what they dress as. we will calmly explain to them that people are different in all ways and we love them for it! I choose not to be a 'mean inner voice' in their heads ex: you aren't good enough etc (NO I'm not saying others do that just using it as example) it breaks my heart to see our future generation go through so much be kind to everyone! You never know what the smallest thing u do for someone or show them how much it could change/help them. They'll be respectful etc just taking a more gentle way when it comes to parenting our babies.. **yes I know I'll probably get hate/rude comments on this and that's your opinion let's all agree to disagree with each other.*** Now with that being said what do y'all think about this kind of approach??! *Sorry if it's in the wrong group*