My husband made me so mad on Thursday I punched the wall and now there is a BIG hole. What gets to me is that he was upset over some nonsense that ended up esclating to the fact that he has been sleeping downstairs and we havent talked not one bit since Thursday night.

On Wednesday I was reading something out loud about women liking women. I was reading comments and comments nothing mayor I thought because we have talked about this many times, we talk about all the stuff we see online and etc etc and the fact that I have no interest in getting with a women.

For some reason he felt offended and was mad because he claims that I gave him ideas like if I was interested in females and like if I was going to leave him for one. It just ended in an argument. BUT he is in several groups that supposably is intended for his hobbies and what he is in to (which is racing) but majority of what them guys send to each other is porn and naked females and sexual stuff. I already talked to him about it and told him I dont like it but he doesnt listen. So I came to drop that topic a while ago but I mentioned it to him because he was telling me I was doing wrong by reading outloud and I dont see how.

Basically as I was walking to the kitchen he was saying things and being sarcastic that I got upset and just punched the wall without any intentions to do so. I didnt get near him I didnt say anything I didnt threaten him nothing and the only thing I said was that it was wrong that we got to that level and that its bad that he got me to that point to punch the wall. He says its my fault for getting mad that I chose to get mad.

We have not talk all day today and he didnt eat the food I cooked and went to sleep back to the couch.

I dont feel like I did anything wrong before punching the wall but he claims its me for reading comments and posts like that.

Sad part is he wants a baby and we are in the process of buying a house. I feel like that is why God hasnt bless me with a baby because maybe its not meant to be.

Or am I over thinking?

P.S. when we was arguing we wasnt screaming at each other we was just talking normal tone. Yes we already have kids together but they were upstairs in the room.