SO's not sure how to feel?

Anyone else's SO not showing much interest? My hubby is not thrilled that I am pregnant, again. Says he wasn't ready for baby#2. Adapted. But is not even remotely close to being ready for #3. He's feeling like he doesn't know baby2 and is worried about our time with the kids as we will be outnumbered. He's worried about housing, vehicles, and finances.

He's also terrified that something horrible is going to happen. He's convinced he's going to have to choose me or the baby sometime in the next 9 months.

Also, he wants to get rid of our cat and dog because he doesn't think we will be able to afford them, now. He hasn't thought about the only thing we have to buy the baby, is diapers and wipes. We have absolutely everything else. His parents have stored my twin bed that we will give our soon to be 3 year old since her toddler bed will convert back into the crib for new baby.