So I have lots of friends who are pregnant and have been pregnant through the years. With each kids there was a shower. I hated going to them I only went to the super close friend ones. So now I'm pregnant, this is #4 and I had only one baby shower only with my first. I don't like the attention, I mean gifts would be nice since I got rid of all the baby stuff after #3. I really thought we were done. So my friends are starting to ask if I'm gonna have one and I do and dont. I know how much I hate going to baby showers. So I was thinking of doing a simple garden party without announcing it as a baby shower. Just invite close friends for tea. I want to celebrate and pray for this baby but I don't want the fuss or the drama of a baby shower. Will my friends be offended if I do it?