Boyfriend

So my boyfriend of 11 months and I were about to have sex. I was kissing on him, going down on him...etc etc(in total about 10-15 min) So I lay down & he said "what are you doing?" I said I want you to kiss on me a stuff. He said " I will once I put it in you". And I told him no that I wasn't wet really yet. Anyways I told him to basically kiss on me( which I had already asked him to do) or to use some lube. He got all mad and was like " we've never used lube before." I told him why..because it would hurt if I wasn't wet or we didn't use lube. He told me it wasn't his fault that I wasn't wet. I told him it takes longer for a girl to get wet that it takes a boy to get hard. He said every girl he's been with always got wet quick. It upset me that he said it wasn't his fault that I wasn't wet. I cried. We didn't have sex...he got mad at me and took a shower instead...jw if anybody has any comments?