Extremely hurt.

So my husband and myself were at a birthday party with a bunch of people that work with my husband (military), everyone was drinking (not me) and this guy popped a balloon next to my husbands head (trying to scare him) jokingly i said now hes going to be all the way deaf! (His hearing is bad in one ear) and the guy said "well at least now he wont have to listen to you bitch!" and i was like excuse me? And my husband was like what did he say and the guy said something about a story my husband told him at work, i started tearing up, at this point everyone was staring at me so i told my husband i wanted to leave and went inside, i went out to the car and my husband followed. He wanted to stay at the party so i told him to text me when he needs a ride and he kept apologizing for what the guy had said saying he was joking and that the guy wants to apologize. Im home now, alone, feeling extremely hurt. I dont know if i should be upset at all but i am... I dont want to go to any funtions anymore because i feel like all my husbands friends think im a bitch. Idk what to do....